But with him sitting so close, feeling his weight on the bed, I knew it was real. The whole thing hadn’t been some fever dream, and it was going to happen again.One of the best aspects of a sexual experience can be its spontaneity.Īn out-of-the-blue moment of passion sounds much more appealing than previously planned sexual activity.įor some gay men, however, sex can be quite regimented. This is of course down to the sometimes necessary preparations gay men take before engaging in anal sex.įor obvious reasons, anal can be a messy experience if the proper preparation isn’t carried out beforehand, and that prep can be both time-consuming and uncomfortable. The primary anal sex preparation method for many gay men is douching.įor those who aren’t familiar with the concept, douching is when a person intentionally cleans out their rectum using water and their douching equipment of choice, such as enemas and douche bulbs.ĭwelling on the potential messy risks of anal sex and the activity of cleaning beforehand is a less than romantic thought, but putting in the effort to make sure anal sex goes off without a hitch is worth it in the end.
